Self-attentiveness and self-awareness
A friend recently wrote to me three emails in which he asked a series of questions about the practice of self-investigation (ātma-vicāra), and the following is adapted and expanded from the replies I wrote to each of his questions:
The first question my friend asked was ‘What is the difference between attention and awareness?’, to which I replied:
Attention is awareness used selectively. That is, it is our ability to select or choose what we want to be aware of, and consequently to focus our awareness on one thing rather than another.
The exact meaning of awareness varies according to the context in which it is used, but in the context of Sri Ramana’s teachings it generally means what is aware, namely ourself. That is, since we alone are aware of ourself and all other things, we alone are awareness (in this sense of what is aware).
Whether we are aware of anything else or not, we are always aware of ourself, because self-awareness is our very nature — what we actually are. However, so long as we are not just aware of ourself alone, our self-awareness seems to be clouded and confused with our awareness of other things. Moreover, even though we are aware of nothing other than ourself in sleep, from the perspective of our waking mind our self-awareness in sleep seems to be obscured and therefore not perfectly clear, because in sleep our mind somehow covers itself, so to speak, with a protective blanket of self-ignorance, and this is why it is able to rise again after it has rested sufficiently in sleep.
Therefore, in order to be aware of ourself as we actually are, and thereby to destroy forever the illusion that we are this mind or ego, we need to be clearly aware of ourself alone, and hence we need to try to withdraw our attention from everything else and to focus it entirely on ourself alone. This attempt to be clearly aware of ourself alone is what is called self-attentiveness or self-attention, and it alone is the correct practice of self-investigation or ātma-vicāra as taught by Sri Ramana.
That is, though we are aware of ourself even when we are aware of other things, our awareness of other things obscures our natural clarity of self-awareness, causing us to mistake ourself to be some of the other things that we experience, such as a body and mind. Therefore in order to be clearly aware of ourself alone, we need to be not just self-aware (as we always are) but attentively self-aware. In other words, we need to focus our entire attention or awareness on ourself alone, thereby excluding everything else from our awareness.
2. We are one, so we can experience ourself as we really are only when we experience ourself alone
The second question my friend asked in the same email was: ‘We are advised to focus our attention inwards, so my questions is whether this power of attention is of mind or self?’, to which I replied:
We are one, and not two different things, a mind and a self. When we experience ourself as we really are (as we do in sleep), we do not experience a mind or anything else, but when we experience ourself as this mind (as we do in waking and dream), we experience not only ourself but also many other things. Therefore whenever we experience anything other than ourself, we are experiencing ourself as if we were this mind, whereas when we experience ourself alone, we are experiencing ourself as we really are.
Hence, when we direct our awareness or power of attention outwards (that is, towards anything other than ourself), it is ourself as this mind that is attending to outward things, whereas when we direct our awareness or power of attention within (that is, towards ourself alone), it is ourself as we really are that is attending to ourself.
However, because we have long been accustomed to experiencing ourself as this mind, we are not yet able to separate ourself entirely from it, so when we try to attend to ourself alone, we are not yet able to do so perfectly. Therefore when we begin to make an effort to turn our attention within, it is ourself as this mind that is making the effort, but the more keenly we focus our attention only on ourself (that is, the closer we come to being aware of ourself alone), the more our mind will subside, and eventually when we succeed in attending to ourself alone, our mind will have subsided entirely and will thereby merge in its source (ourself), so what will then be aware of ourself alone will be ourself alone and not our mind. In other words, to the extent that we manage to attend to ourself alone, to that extent it is not our mind but only ourself that is attending.
3. We should try to attend only to ourself and not to anything else
The final question that my friend asked in his first email was about watching or ‘witnessing’ thoughts or feelings. He began by saying that he believes that ‘whatever you put attention on grows’, but then he referred to the advice given by some people that we should look at or witness any thought or feeling that may arise, and he asked whether looking at, noticing, acknowledging or witnessing thoughts is at all different to putting attention on them, and if not, ‘then if we put attention on thoughts will they grow or fade away?’, to which I replied:
Yes, anything that we attend to grows in prominence in our experience or awareness. Therefore the more we try to attend to ourself alone, the more we ourself will grow in prominence in our awareness — in other words, the more clearly we will become aware of ourself as we really are, in isolation from our body, mind and all the other adjuncts that we now mistake to be ourself.
However, if we watch, look at, witness or attend to any thought, feeling or anything else other than ourself, that thing will grow in prominence in our awareness, and will thereby reinforce the illusion that we are this mind rather than what we actually are. This is why Sri Ramana always advised us to attend only to ourself and thereby to ignore everything else, including any thought or feeling that may arise.
In this connection please read the following: The fundamental law of experience, The teachings of Sri Ramana and Nisargadatta are significantly different and The crucial secret revealed by Sri Ramana: the only means to subdue our mind permanently. As you will see if you read these, Sri Ramana never advised us to look at or witness any thoughts or feelings, because doing so would only feed and nourish our mind or ego, and since our ego is the root of all our other thoughts, by attending to any thought we are not only nourishing and sustaining our ego but through it we are also nourishing and sustaining our tendency to think other thoughts.
This is one of the most fundamental and important principles that Sri Ramana taught us: by attending to any thought — that is, to anything other than ourself alone — we are nourishing and sustaining the illusion that we are this ego that we now seem to be, and hence the only way to deprive our ego or mind of the nourishment that it requires to survive is to try to attend to ourself alone. This principle was stated by him clearly and emphatically in verse 25 of Uḷḷadu Nāṟpadu:
Whether we talk of looking at, noticing, acknowledging, witnessing, watching, observing or putting attention on thoughts, it all means the same thing, and it all entails ‘grasping form’ and ‘feeding on form’, so it is the direct opposite of attending only to ourself, as Sri Ramana advised us to do. Witnessing, watching or observing is not different to attending, and if we witness, watch, observe or attend to any thought it will not subside or fade away but will only grow stronger.
Therefore our aim should not be to witness or be aware of any thought, but only to witness or be aware of ourself alone. Trying to do so is alone the correct practice of self-investigation (ātma-vicāra) as taught by Sri Ramana.
4. Being self-attentive in the midst of other work
In his second email, which he wrote after receiving what I replied to his earlier questions, my friend began by saying that he is a surgeon and that he therefore has to constantly interact with his patients, analyse their health issues, do research and so on, but that he is also inclined towards spirituality, so he asked: ‘How to balance both worlds? How can I be aware of myself when I am dealing with patients, who always seek the best results from the treating doctor?’ in reply to this I wrote:
Whatever work we may do need not stand in the way of our practising ātma-vicāra, because however much work we may have we still find time to think many unnecessary thoughts, so if we spend the time we normally spend attending to such thoughts attending to ourself instead, that will be sufficient. Whatever thoughts may be required for you to do your work effectively are obviously necessary, so you should attend to those thoughts as usual, but if you spend all or most of the rest of your time trying to be self-attentive, you will gradually find that a subtle degree of self-attentiveness can continue even while you are attending to all the necessary thoughts that your work entails.
5. Our ego is nourished and sustained by attending to thoughts
In the same email my friend also wrote, ‘Nisargadatta Maharaja and other spiritual teachers always advised to witness or look at any thoughts and that if one does that, the thought automatically withers away’, and he added that such teachers ‘advised never to repress or avoid any thoughts but to accept and look at (witness) them because thoughts themselves have no power of their own. It is the awareness which is more powerful than thoughts and that the energy of thoughts gets dissolved in the energy of awareness when they are looked at instead of ignored, because the more we ignore them, the more they will get embedded in the subconscious or unconscious mind’, and hence we should ‘rather bring all the thoughts in our consciousness and be aware of them fully’.
However, he agreed that this is not what Sri Ramana advises us to do, so he asked: ‘So when I have thoughts, should I just ignore or repress them? I feel doing that would make those thoughts buried in the unconscious mind and that it will come out anytime with a great vengeance’, to which I replied:
Regarding the advice given by people such as Nisargadatta to witness thoughts, according to Sri Ramana that is not a real spiritual practice, because witnessing thoughts simply entails being aware of them, and we are anyway aware of our thoughts all the time. According to Sri Ramana our ego is nourished and sustained by attending to thoughts (that is, to anything other than ourself), so it will subside and merge within only by attending to itself (ourself) alone.
Therefore it is wrong to imagine that thoughts will automatically wither away if we attend to them. On the contrary, the more we attend to them (or witness them) the more our ego and its attachment to them will be strengthened. If we want all thoughts to wither away, the only way to make them do so is to try to attend to ourself alone, thereby ignoring them.
The practice of ātma-vicāra taught by Sri Ramana entails turning our attention back to ourself whenever it is distracted away towards any thoughts. This is not suppressing thoughts, but simply ignoring them. Attending to thoughts is like watering plants, whereas ignoring them by attending only to ourself is like depriving plants of water. Just as plants deprived of water will wither and die, thoughts deprived of our attention will wither and die.
You imply that Nisargadatta and other teachers claim that since awareness is more powerful than thoughts, ‘the energy of thoughts gets dissolved in the energy of awareness when they are looked at’. This is contrary to our experience. We are constantly ‘looking at’ and hence aware of our thoughts, but they are not thereby ‘dissolved in the energy of awareness’. On the contrary, they are nourished and sustained by our awareness of them, so this claim is clearly refuted by our experience.
You also imply that they claim that ‘the more we ignore them [thoughts], the more they will get embedded in the subconscious or unconscious mind’. The term ‘the subconscious or unconscious mind’ seems to refer to a concept in modern psychology, but I assume that in this context what is meant by saying ‘they will get embedded in the subconscious or unconscious mind’ is that they will be stored as vāsanās or propensities to think the same kinds of thoughts repeatedly. However, this claim is directly opposed to what Sri Ramana taught us about the nature of vāsanās and thoughts.
According to him, vāsanās are like seeds and thoughts are the plants that sprout from them, and the more we attend to any particular type of thought the more we will thereby multiply and nurture the vāsanās from which they sprout. Therefore the only way to weaken and eventually destroy all our vāsanās is to attend only to ourself and thereby to ignore whatever thoughts may sprout from them. This is clearly implied by him in the tenth and eleventh paragraphs of Nāṉ Yār? (Who am I?):
6. Thoughts distract our attention away from ourself, so we should try to attend to ourself alone
In reply to this my friend wrote another email in which he said that when he tries to practise ātma-vicāra thoughts start, to which I replied:
We are thinking thoughts of one kind or another throughout our waking and dream states, because according to Sri Ramana everything that we experience other than ourself, including this entire world, is nothing but our own thoughts or ideas. Therefore thoughts do not start only when we try to practise ātma-vicāra, but do so whenever our mind rises from sleep, because the nature of our mind is to think constantly. However, it is only when we try to practise ātma-vicāra — that is, when we try to experience ourself alone — that thoughts start to trouble us, because then only do we notice that the nature of any thought is to distract our attention away from ourself.
When we practise ātma-vicāra it is natural that thoughts arise, because thoughts are the food on which our mind or ego lives, and our ego cannot stand for a moment without them. Self-attentiveness is therefore undermining the very foundation of our ego by depriving it of the nourishment on which it depends for survival, so when we try to be exclusively self-attentive, our ego rebels by projecting and trying to cling to thoughts.
Ātma-vicāra is therefore a battle between our love to experience ourself alone (sat-vāsanā) and our liking to experience other things (viṣaya-vāsanās). In order to succeed we must just persevere in trying to be self-attentive as much as possible. There is no other way.
- What is the difference between attention and awareness?
- We are one, so we can experience ourself as we really are only when we experience ourself alone
- We should try to attend only to ourself and not to anything else
- Being self-attentive in the midst of other work
- Our ego is nourished and sustained by attending to thoughts
- Thoughts distract our attention away from ourself, so we should try to attend to ourself alone
The first question my friend asked was ‘What is the difference between attention and awareness?’, to which I replied:
Attention is awareness used selectively. That is, it is our ability to select or choose what we want to be aware of, and consequently to focus our awareness on one thing rather than another.
The exact meaning of awareness varies according to the context in which it is used, but in the context of Sri Ramana’s teachings it generally means what is aware, namely ourself. That is, since we alone are aware of ourself and all other things, we alone are awareness (in this sense of what is aware).
Whether we are aware of anything else or not, we are always aware of ourself, because self-awareness is our very nature — what we actually are. However, so long as we are not just aware of ourself alone, our self-awareness seems to be clouded and confused with our awareness of other things. Moreover, even though we are aware of nothing other than ourself in sleep, from the perspective of our waking mind our self-awareness in sleep seems to be obscured and therefore not perfectly clear, because in sleep our mind somehow covers itself, so to speak, with a protective blanket of self-ignorance, and this is why it is able to rise again after it has rested sufficiently in sleep.
Therefore, in order to be aware of ourself as we actually are, and thereby to destroy forever the illusion that we are this mind or ego, we need to be clearly aware of ourself alone, and hence we need to try to withdraw our attention from everything else and to focus it entirely on ourself alone. This attempt to be clearly aware of ourself alone is what is called self-attentiveness or self-attention, and it alone is the correct practice of self-investigation or ātma-vicāra as taught by Sri Ramana.
That is, though we are aware of ourself even when we are aware of other things, our awareness of other things obscures our natural clarity of self-awareness, causing us to mistake ourself to be some of the other things that we experience, such as a body and mind. Therefore in order to be clearly aware of ourself alone, we need to be not just self-aware (as we always are) but attentively self-aware. In other words, we need to focus our entire attention or awareness on ourself alone, thereby excluding everything else from our awareness.
2. We are one, so we can experience ourself as we really are only when we experience ourself alone
The second question my friend asked in the same email was: ‘We are advised to focus our attention inwards, so my questions is whether this power of attention is of mind or self?’, to which I replied:
We are one, and not two different things, a mind and a self. When we experience ourself as we really are (as we do in sleep), we do not experience a mind or anything else, but when we experience ourself as this mind (as we do in waking and dream), we experience not only ourself but also many other things. Therefore whenever we experience anything other than ourself, we are experiencing ourself as if we were this mind, whereas when we experience ourself alone, we are experiencing ourself as we really are.
Hence, when we direct our awareness or power of attention outwards (that is, towards anything other than ourself), it is ourself as this mind that is attending to outward things, whereas when we direct our awareness or power of attention within (that is, towards ourself alone), it is ourself as we really are that is attending to ourself.
However, because we have long been accustomed to experiencing ourself as this mind, we are not yet able to separate ourself entirely from it, so when we try to attend to ourself alone, we are not yet able to do so perfectly. Therefore when we begin to make an effort to turn our attention within, it is ourself as this mind that is making the effort, but the more keenly we focus our attention only on ourself (that is, the closer we come to being aware of ourself alone), the more our mind will subside, and eventually when we succeed in attending to ourself alone, our mind will have subsided entirely and will thereby merge in its source (ourself), so what will then be aware of ourself alone will be ourself alone and not our mind. In other words, to the extent that we manage to attend to ourself alone, to that extent it is not our mind but only ourself that is attending.
3. We should try to attend only to ourself and not to anything else
The final question that my friend asked in his first email was about watching or ‘witnessing’ thoughts or feelings. He began by saying that he believes that ‘whatever you put attention on grows’, but then he referred to the advice given by some people that we should look at or witness any thought or feeling that may arise, and he asked whether looking at, noticing, acknowledging or witnessing thoughts is at all different to putting attention on them, and if not, ‘then if we put attention on thoughts will they grow or fade away?’, to which I replied:
Yes, anything that we attend to grows in prominence in our experience or awareness. Therefore the more we try to attend to ourself alone, the more we ourself will grow in prominence in our awareness — in other words, the more clearly we will become aware of ourself as we really are, in isolation from our body, mind and all the other adjuncts that we now mistake to be ourself.
However, if we watch, look at, witness or attend to any thought, feeling or anything else other than ourself, that thing will grow in prominence in our awareness, and will thereby reinforce the illusion that we are this mind rather than what we actually are. This is why Sri Ramana always advised us to attend only to ourself and thereby to ignore everything else, including any thought or feeling that may arise.
In this connection please read the following: The fundamental law of experience, The teachings of Sri Ramana and Nisargadatta are significantly different and The crucial secret revealed by Sri Ramana: the only means to subdue our mind permanently. As you will see if you read these, Sri Ramana never advised us to look at or witness any thoughts or feelings, because doing so would only feed and nourish our mind or ego, and since our ego is the root of all our other thoughts, by attending to any thought we are not only nourishing and sustaining our ego but through it we are also nourishing and sustaining our tendency to think other thoughts.
This is one of the most fundamental and important principles that Sri Ramana taught us: by attending to any thought — that is, to anything other than ourself alone — we are nourishing and sustaining the illusion that we are this ego that we now seem to be, and hence the only way to deprive our ego or mind of the nourishment that it requires to survive is to try to attend to ourself alone. This principle was stated by him clearly and emphatically in verse 25 of Uḷḷadu Nāṟpadu:
உருப்பற்றி யுண்டா முருப்பற்றி நிற்குHere உரு (uru) or ‘form’ means any thought — that is, anything that has any features that distinguish it from ourself, who experience it. Hence by attending to any thought we are ‘grasping form’ and ‘feeding on form’, whereas if we try to attend only to ourself, the ego who normally attends to things other than ourself, we will thereby cease to grasp anything else, and hence our ego will ‘take flight’ — that is, it will subside and disappear — and what will then remain is only ourself as we really are.
முருப்பற்றி யுண்டுமிக வோங்கு — முருவிட்
டுருப்பற்றுந் தேடினா லோட்டம் பிடிக்கு
முருவற்ற பேயகந்தை யோர்.
uruppaṯṟi yuṇḍā muruppaṯṟi niṟku
muruppaṯṟi yuṇḍumiha vōṅgu — muruviṭ
ṭuruppaṯṟun tēḍiṉā lōṭṭam piḍikku
muruvaṯṟa pēyahandai yōr.
பதச்சேதம்: உரு பற்றி உண்டாம்; உரு பற்றி நிற்கும்; உரு பற்றி உண்டு மிக ஓங்கும்; உரு விட்டு, உரு பற்றும்; தேடினால் ஓட்டம் பிடிக்கும், உரு அற்ற பேய் அகந்தை. ஓர்.
Padacchēdam (word-separation): uru paṯṟi uṇḍām; uru paṯṟi niṯkum; uru paṯṟi uṇḍu miha ōṅgum; uru viṭṭu, uru paṯṟum; tēḍiṉāl ōṭṭam piḍikkum, uru aṯṟa pēy ahandai. ōr.
அன்வயம்: உரு அற்ற பேய் அகந்தை உரு பற்றி உண்டாம்; உரு பற்றி நிற்கும்; உரு பற்றி உண்டு மிக ஓங்கும்; உரு விட்டு, உரு பற்றும்; தேடினால் ஓட்டம் பிடிக்கும். ஓர்.
Anvayam (words rearranged in natural prose order): uru aṯṟa pēy ahandai uru paṯṟi uṇḍām; uru paṯṟi niṯkum; uru paṯṟi uṇḍu miha ōṅgum; uru viṭṭu, uru paṯṟum; tēḍiṉāl ōṭṭam piḍikkum. ōr.
English translation: Grasping form, the formless phantom-ego rises into being; grasping form it stands [or endures]; grasping and feeding on form it grows [or flourishes] abundantly; leaving [one] form, it grasps [another] form. If sought [examined or investigated], it will take flight. Investigate [or know thus].
Whether we talk of looking at, noticing, acknowledging, witnessing, watching, observing or putting attention on thoughts, it all means the same thing, and it all entails ‘grasping form’ and ‘feeding on form’, so it is the direct opposite of attending only to ourself, as Sri Ramana advised us to do. Witnessing, watching or observing is not different to attending, and if we witness, watch, observe or attend to any thought it will not subside or fade away but will only grow stronger.
Therefore our aim should not be to witness or be aware of any thought, but only to witness or be aware of ourself alone. Trying to do so is alone the correct practice of self-investigation (ātma-vicāra) as taught by Sri Ramana.
4. Being self-attentive in the midst of other work
In his second email, which he wrote after receiving what I replied to his earlier questions, my friend began by saying that he is a surgeon and that he therefore has to constantly interact with his patients, analyse their health issues, do research and so on, but that he is also inclined towards spirituality, so he asked: ‘How to balance both worlds? How can I be aware of myself when I am dealing with patients, who always seek the best results from the treating doctor?’ in reply to this I wrote:
Whatever work we may do need not stand in the way of our practising ātma-vicāra, because however much work we may have we still find time to think many unnecessary thoughts, so if we spend the time we normally spend attending to such thoughts attending to ourself instead, that will be sufficient. Whatever thoughts may be required for you to do your work effectively are obviously necessary, so you should attend to those thoughts as usual, but if you spend all or most of the rest of your time trying to be self-attentive, you will gradually find that a subtle degree of self-attentiveness can continue even while you are attending to all the necessary thoughts that your work entails.
5. Our ego is nourished and sustained by attending to thoughts
In the same email my friend also wrote, ‘Nisargadatta Maharaja and other spiritual teachers always advised to witness or look at any thoughts and that if one does that, the thought automatically withers away’, and he added that such teachers ‘advised never to repress or avoid any thoughts but to accept and look at (witness) them because thoughts themselves have no power of their own. It is the awareness which is more powerful than thoughts and that the energy of thoughts gets dissolved in the energy of awareness when they are looked at instead of ignored, because the more we ignore them, the more they will get embedded in the subconscious or unconscious mind’, and hence we should ‘rather bring all the thoughts in our consciousness and be aware of them fully’.
However, he agreed that this is not what Sri Ramana advises us to do, so he asked: ‘So when I have thoughts, should I just ignore or repress them? I feel doing that would make those thoughts buried in the unconscious mind and that it will come out anytime with a great vengeance’, to which I replied:
Regarding the advice given by people such as Nisargadatta to witness thoughts, according to Sri Ramana that is not a real spiritual practice, because witnessing thoughts simply entails being aware of them, and we are anyway aware of our thoughts all the time. According to Sri Ramana our ego is nourished and sustained by attending to thoughts (that is, to anything other than ourself), so it will subside and merge within only by attending to itself (ourself) alone.
Therefore it is wrong to imagine that thoughts will automatically wither away if we attend to them. On the contrary, the more we attend to them (or witness them) the more our ego and its attachment to them will be strengthened. If we want all thoughts to wither away, the only way to make them do so is to try to attend to ourself alone, thereby ignoring them.
The practice of ātma-vicāra taught by Sri Ramana entails turning our attention back to ourself whenever it is distracted away towards any thoughts. This is not suppressing thoughts, but simply ignoring them. Attending to thoughts is like watering plants, whereas ignoring them by attending only to ourself is like depriving plants of water. Just as plants deprived of water will wither and die, thoughts deprived of our attention will wither and die.
You imply that Nisargadatta and other teachers claim that since awareness is more powerful than thoughts, ‘the energy of thoughts gets dissolved in the energy of awareness when they are looked at’. This is contrary to our experience. We are constantly ‘looking at’ and hence aware of our thoughts, but they are not thereby ‘dissolved in the energy of awareness’. On the contrary, they are nourished and sustained by our awareness of them, so this claim is clearly refuted by our experience.
You also imply that they claim that ‘the more we ignore them [thoughts], the more they will get embedded in the subconscious or unconscious mind’. The term ‘the subconscious or unconscious mind’ seems to refer to a concept in modern psychology, but I assume that in this context what is meant by saying ‘they will get embedded in the subconscious or unconscious mind’ is that they will be stored as vāsanās or propensities to think the same kinds of thoughts repeatedly. However, this claim is directly opposed to what Sri Ramana taught us about the nature of vāsanās and thoughts.
According to him, vāsanās are like seeds and thoughts are the plants that sprout from them, and the more we attend to any particular type of thought the more we will thereby multiply and nurture the vāsanās from which they sprout. Therefore the only way to weaken and eventually destroy all our vāsanās is to attend only to ourself and thereby to ignore whatever thoughts may sprout from them. This is clearly implied by him in the tenth and eleventh paragraphs of Nāṉ Yār? (Who am I?):
தொன்றுதொட்டு வருகின்ற விஷயவாசனைகள் அளவற்றனவாய்க் கடலலைகள் போற் றோன்றினும் அவையாவும் சொரூபத்யானம் கிளம்பக் கிளம்ப அழிந்துவிடும். அத்தனை வாசனைகளு மொடுங்கி, சொரூபமாத்திரமா யிருக்க முடியுமா வென்னும் சந்தேக நினைவுக்கு மிடங்கொடாமல், சொரூபத்யானத்தை விடாப்பிடியாய்ப் பிடிக்க வேண்டும். [...]Because thoughts require our attention in order to survive, they will try to grab our attention whenever we try to attend to ourself alone, but if we persevere in trying to be self-attentive, they will gradually be weakened and will eventually lose their power to distract us.
toṉḏṟutoṭṭu varugiṉḏṟa viṣaya-vāsaṉaigaḷ aḷavaṯṟaṉavāy-k kaḍal-alaigaḷ pōl tōṉḏṟiṉum avai-yāvum sorūpa-dhyāṉam kiḷamba-k kiḷamba aṙindu-viḍum. attaṉai vāsaṉaigaḷum oḍuṅgi, sorūpa-māttiram-āy irukka muḍiyumā v-eṉṉum sandēha niṉaivukkum iḍam koḍāmal, sorūpa-dhyāṉattai viḍā-p-piḍiyāy-p piḍikka vēṇḍum. [...]
Even though viṣaya-vāsanās [inclinations, propensities or desires to experience things other than oneself], which come from time immemorial, rise [as thoughts] in countless numbers like ocean-waves, they will all be destroyed when svarūpa-dhyāna [self-attentiveness] increases and increases. Without giving room even to the doubting thought ‘Is it possible to dissolve so many vāsanās and be [or remain] only as self?’ it is necessary to cling tenaciously to self-attentiveness. [...]
மனத்தின்கண் எதுவரையில் விஷயவாசனைக ளிருக்கின்றனவோ, அதுவரையில் நானா ரென்னும் விசாரணையும் வேண்டும். நினைவுகள் தோன்றத் தோன்ற அப்போதைக்கப்போதே அவைகளையெல்லாம் உற்பத்திஸ்தானத்திலேயே விசாரணையால் நசிப்பிக்க வேண்டும். [...]
maṉattiṉgaṇ edu-varaiyil viṣaya-vāsaṉaigaḷ irukkiṉḏṟaṉavō, adu-varaiyil nāṉ-ār eṉṉum vicāraṇai-y-um vēṇḍum. niṉaivugaḷ tōṉḏṟa-t tōṉḏṟa appōdaikkappōdē avaigaḷai-y-ellām uṯpatti-sthāṉattilēyē vicāraṇaiyāl naśippikka vēṇḍum. [...]
As long as viṣaya-vāsanās exist in the mind, so long the investigation who am I is necessary. As and when thoughts arise, then and there it is necessary to annihilate them all by vicāraṇā [self-investigation or vigilant self-attentiveness] in the very place from which they arise. [...]
6. Thoughts distract our attention away from ourself, so we should try to attend to ourself alone
In reply to this my friend wrote another email in which he said that when he tries to practise ātma-vicāra thoughts start, to which I replied:
We are thinking thoughts of one kind or another throughout our waking and dream states, because according to Sri Ramana everything that we experience other than ourself, including this entire world, is nothing but our own thoughts or ideas. Therefore thoughts do not start only when we try to practise ātma-vicāra, but do so whenever our mind rises from sleep, because the nature of our mind is to think constantly. However, it is only when we try to practise ātma-vicāra — that is, when we try to experience ourself alone — that thoughts start to trouble us, because then only do we notice that the nature of any thought is to distract our attention away from ourself.
When we practise ātma-vicāra it is natural that thoughts arise, because thoughts are the food on which our mind or ego lives, and our ego cannot stand for a moment without them. Self-attentiveness is therefore undermining the very foundation of our ego by depriving it of the nourishment on which it depends for survival, so when we try to be exclusively self-attentive, our ego rebels by projecting and trying to cling to thoughts.
Ātma-vicāra is therefore a battle between our love to experience ourself alone (sat-vāsanā) and our liking to experience other things (viṣaya-vāsanās). In order to succeed we must just persevere in trying to be self-attentive as much as possible. There is no other way.
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"However, it is only when we try to practise ātma-vicāra — that is, when we try to experience ourself alone — that thoughts start to trouble us, because then only do we notice that the nature of any thought is to distract our attention away from ourself."
A very profound statement.
"Ātma-vicāra is therefore a battle between our love to experience ourself alone (sat-vāsanā) and our liking to experience other things (viṣaya-vāsanās). In order to succeed we must just persevere in trying to be self-attentive as much as possible. There is no other way."
That paragraph alone is enough.
This should be a core tenet of every teaching.
The lack of attention paid to the notion of persistence in self attentiveness creates a false sense of expectation in most people.
If you are turning 80-160 degrees for three years, it may not mean that you will ever turn the whole 180 degrees, but your ability to abide as self increases, to the point where you see, without a shadow of a doubt, that each and every moment is a choice between self attention and thought.
Once one gets to this point, the pull of thoughts may still keep one distracted for large periods of a typical day, but there are no more pretensions any more about what needs to be done if one ever truly wants to turn 180 degrees.
You either remain fixated on the self alone, or you grasp at thoughts. The choice is yours, and you are making it every second; it becomes clear just how much you truly love your self, and how much you love your thought-based reality.
I am currently stuck in limbo between these two polarities, but it is only my love for the unreal that keeps me here. It is a blessing to read your articles, especially when the truth is laid bare in sentences such as: "In order to succeed we must just persevere in trying to be self-attentive as much as possible. There is no other way."
Thank you Michael.
Yes, Mat, I agree with you entirely. The choice is ours, and most of the time we are making the wrong choice, but if we persevere in trying to make the right choice — to be self-attentive rather than attentive to anything else — each second as frequently as we can, we will certainly succeed sooner or later.
Like you, I too am stuck in limbo between these two polarities, as I suspect are all of us who are trying more or less earnestly to practise the simple path of self-investigation that Bhagavan has taught us, but the only way out of this limbo is to persevere in trying to be self-attentive from moment to moment.
As you say, it is clear that the only problem is our ‘love for the unreal’ — our persistent liking to experience anything other than ourself, and our consequent lack of love to experience ourself alone — but the only way to overcome this problem is to persevere in our practice of self-attentiveness. The more we try to be self-attentive, the more our love to experience ourself alone will be cultivated and nurtured, and the more our liking to experience anything else will consequently wan.
This blog is a haven of inspiration to continue walking Bhagavan's path.
Isn't that another meaning of the word satsang?
Thank you Michael and all participants.
Probably due to the circumstances of my particular so-called life, I've come to think of the unreal as an attachment, an addiction, or simply a bad habit, more than an object of love. In that sense, there is really nothing more helpful in making the choice to turn away from the unreal, and thereby cultivate love for the real - real love, if you will - than the unreal itself.
Yes, Michael. I also agree and I am realizing more and more that you have to have absolute love to know yourself. Not only that, it also indicates the intensity of love required and I would say this is true whether it's the love required to know oneself through self inquiry or be it love towards a dualistic god, or an object in meditation which finally leads to self inquiry when ripe. For e.g. when I get carried away by an emotion be it anger or whatever, the resistance I feel in bringing my attention to the "I am feeling" is itself an indicator of how much vasana I have as well as the time duration it takes for the emotion to settle down, before i'm able to bring my attention back to the "I am". If I truly had love for the "I am", I should be able to bring my attention back quite easily.
I would say that even all this writing is just a vasana. In truth even as I type this I should be doing self inquiry. If my love to know "I am" as it is was truly that intense, i will not waste my time in any other thing, because it tends to disturb the mind and makes it more and more argumentative. Hopefully with more practice my mind should calm down. In that aspect, here is some advice from Swami Vivekananda in Raja Yoga. Though he refers to Yoga, this is applicable to any method.
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Holding the rein firmly while guiding the body and the organs; not letting them do anything they like, but keeping them both under proper control. Study. What is meant by study in this case? No study of novels or story books, but study of those works which teach the liberation of the Soul. Then again this study does not mean controversial studies at all. The Yogi is supposed to have finished his period of controversy. He has had enough of that, and has become satisfied.
He only studies to intensify his convictions. Vada and Siddhanta -- these are the two sorts of scriptural knowledge -- vada (the argumentative) and Siddhanta (the decisive). When a man is entirely ignorant he takes up the first of these, the argumentative fighting, and reasoning pro and con; and when he has finished that he takes up the Siddhanta, the decisive, arriving at a conclusion. Simply arriving at this conclusion will not do. It must be intensified. Books are infinite in number, and time is short; therefore the secret of knowledge is to take what is essential. Take that and try to live up to it. There is an old Indian legend that if you place a cup of milk and water before a Raja Hamsa (swan), he will take all the milk and leave the water. In that way we should take what is of value in knowledge, and leave the dross. Intellectual gymnastics are necessary at first. We must not go blindly into anything. The Yogi has passed the argumentative state, and has come to a conclusion, which is, like the rocks, immovable. The only thing he now seeks to do is to intensify that conclusion. Do not argue, he says; if one forces arguments upon you, be silent. Do not answer any argument, but go away calmly, because arguments only disturb the mind. The only thing necessary is to train the intellect, what is the use of disturbing it for nothing? The intellect is but a weak instrument, and can give us only knowledge limited by the senses. The Yogi wants to go beyond the senses, therefore intellect is of no use to him. He is certain of this and, therefore, is silent, and does not argue. Every argument throws his mind out of balance, creates a disturbance in the Chitta, and a disturbance is a drawback. Argumentations and searchings of the reason are only by the way. There are much higher things beyond them. The whole of life is not for school boy fights and debating societies. "Surrendering the fruits of work to God" is to take to ourselves neither credit nor blame, but to give up both to the Lord and be at peace.
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Yes but when we attend "I"does this I or ego grow larger instead of dissolving as "I-I" ?
Anthony, our ego has a peculiar property, because whereas everything else that we experience grows in prominence when we attend to it, our ego dissolves and disappears when we attend to it. This is because the ego is an illusion that seems to exist only when we attend to other things.
When we attend to anything other than ourself, we thereby give rise to and sustain both the illusion that we are this ego and the consequent illusion that other things also exist. However, when we try to attend to ourself alone, these two co-existent illusions will both be dissolved, because they can endure only so long as we are attending to anything other than ourself.
This is why Bhagavan says in verses 25 and 26 of Uḷḷadu Nāṟpadu:
“Grasping form, the formless phantom-ego rises into being; grasping form it stands [or endures]; grasping and feeding on form it grows [or flourishes] abundantly; leaving [one] form, it grasps [another] form. If sought [examined or investigated], it will take flight. Investigate [or know thus].”
“If the ego comes into existence, everything comes into existence; if the ego does not exist, everything does not exist. [Hence] the ego itself is everything. Therefore, know that investigating what this [ego] is alone is giving up everything.”
Since the ego will dissolve or ‘take flight’ if we investigate, examine or attend to it, and since everything else depends for its seeming existence on the seeming existence of this ego, investigating what it is is giving up not only the ego but also everything else.
The ego comes into existence by grasping a body and experiencing itself as that, so Bhagavan used to say that the ego is just the false experience ‘I am this body’. Therefore, when we investigate ourself and thereby experience ourself as we really are, this false experience ‘I am this body’ will dissolve within us, and what will then remain is only the true experience ‘I am I’ (that is, I am nothing other than I myself).
However, as I explain in நான் நான் (nāṉ nāṉ) means ‘I am I’, not ‘I-I’, in Tamil it is customary to omit the word ‘am’ in sentences such as ‘who am I?’ (nāṉ yār?), ‘I am this body’ (nāṉ i-t-dēham) or ‘I am I’ (nāṉ nāṉ), but wherever Bhagavan used the term ‘nāṉ nāṉ’ (such as in verse 20 of Upadēśa Undiyār, verse 30 of Uḷḷadu Nāṟpadu and verse 2 of Āṉma-Viddai) it has unfortunately often been mistranslated as ‘I-I’ instead of ‘I am I’. Therefore wherever you see the term ‘I-I’ used in translations of his teachings, what he actually meant was the true experience ‘I am I’, as opposed to the false experience ‘I am the body’, ‘I am this’ or ‘I am that’.
Michael,
the practice of self - attention or self - attentiveness seems to be a dualistic matter. It is not become clear to me how I can be self-attentive if not watching my breath or anything other object ?
The ego watches its attentiveness i.e.its own watching of its own watching or being. To me it appears as attentiveness or awareness of the own attention.
I am being I am. I know now that I am now knowing or being.
How exactly is self-attentiveness to be done ?
On which point of the mentioned "trying to be self-attentive" is the question "Who am I" to be asked ? While directing the attention on that exercise I ask to whom it is not clear how to be self-attentive. Oh yes, it leads deeper...
And now I am to be aware who has come deeper. Now I am aware that I am aware. Who am I that am(is)aware of (his) awareness ?
To me it seems to be the right path. But who am I to whom that seeming correctness of that attitude appears ?
What do you say, Michael, is that really self-enquiry or only self- illusion ?
Namjagbarwa,
I can describe my personal experience with what helped me with self-enquiry in case it is useful for you. Note this is only my personal experience and is not necessarily how Michael would respond.
Firstly, forget everything you've read and think you've understood and bring it back to the basics.
Whenever you notice a feeling or thought passing through, ask yourself 'who is feeling this?' or 'who thought that?'. When you ask these questions, if the mind verbalizes an answer, then ignore it or ask 'who thought that answer?'
But, on the other hand, if one day you ask any of these related questions and only a silent feeling of presence responds, then that is great news. That silent feeling might feel like you, or, in other words, feel like I AM.
Once you encounter I AM, ask 'Who is feeling this?' and if the answer is the same feeling of I AM, then you can perhaps stop asking all the related 'Who am I?' questions. You can just continue to return your attention over and over again to the I AM feeling.
Be careful not to turn I AM into another object though. See it freshly each time you look in its direction.
Zubin,
many thanks for your reply.
Yes,yes, to return steadily the attention to the 'silent feeling I am' in perseverance is something crucial.
Your warning not to lose carefulness/caution is just as estimable as your advice to look at myself always freshly.
Dearest Michael James JI how are you? Hope fine!
I am Célio from Brazil I think you remember you gave me the blessing of a skipe lesson.
I have a important point - in a special way to me and lawyers. You quote above ''Whatever work we may do need not stand in the way of our practising ātma-vicāra, because however much work we may have we still find time to think many unnecessary thoughts, so if we spend the time we normally spend attending to such thoughts attending to ourself instead, that will be sufficient. Whatever thoughts may be required for you to do your work effectively are obviously necessary, so you should attend to those thoughts as usual, but if you spend all or most of the rest of your time trying to be self-attentive, you will gradually find that a subtle degree of self-attentiveness can continue even while you are attending to all the necessary thoughts that your work entails.''
Its a great lesson. But not completely clear to me. Like I am a public lawyer and work in petitions for 9,10 hours/day...Its a hard intelectual work. And I really have a love for my beingness. Its fruit of so many practice and sadhana for decades. But you can explain in a more detailed way how ''to keep the undercurrent attention on I ' or inner feeling of I in such a job of mine. Love, Célio
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